“他”是。。。真的有答案了啦！ “He” is… Yes, there’s definitely an answer now!

好奇猫，对不起，让你们久等了。。。但这样你们才会一直上我网站啊。。。

首先，先回答”两个事件”的真实性，是否真有此事、确有此人？

至于”那晚他没有来”，的确有这件事和这个人。。。他和我的电话简讯都是真的。。。而且事情刚发生不久。。。若真想要知道真名真姓，我建议你们去搜索Digi, Maxis, Celcom 啦等等的记录，一定找得到的。。。若要我直接把他的身份暴露出来，恐怕我又要写一篇”那晚他又没有来”了！

但大家好奇的还不是这个”他”吧？比较是”你为什么一定要这样”的那个”他”。。。因为大概有很多人要跟他拜师，怎么那么勇敢顶撞牧师，哈哈！

好！现在就给你们知道！真有此事、确有此人吗？哎哟，说真的，你们若好好读，那何止是一件事而已呢？也不只一个人吧？

你看！你看！我就知道是这种”废”答案！。。。哎，别急，我的话还没讲完哪。。。我们先来一些成熟的讨论嘛，不要只是好像追读那毫无意义的八卦娱乐新闻。。。

如果我要吊你胃口，我就会说：这篇文章是好几个事件汇集而成的；而且当中的人物也不只一个。。。当然，这也是相当有可能，因为文章里的冲突包含了很多方面，不可能是一次的冲突就有那么多样化的内容吧？
好，尽管是几件事汇集而成，那是不是同一个人呢。。。

阿哈！这个答案嘛。。。其实你们都知道是谁啦！

“他”就是你自己啊！难道你不曾很不礼貌的顶撞或误会你的弟兄、或朋友、或长辈、或父母等等等吗。。。？这些是你们自己的写照啊。。。
哪！哪！哪！又来了！又是这种”废”答案了！。。。哈哈哈！别急，别急，我还没讲完哪！你看你们现在是不是也跟”他”一样要喊我啊？所以我说”他”就是你、就是我啊！

但是说真的，是有这样的事啦。。。也有这个人的存在。。。但是写文章当然有加以修改啦。。。
文章登出后激起很多人的好奇，但我知道他自己大概还没或不会去读，所以我传简讯给他叫他去读那一篇文章，还对他说那篇文章是写给他的。。。去读看看吧，我说。。。他回答，好！

隔天问他读了吗？他说读了。。。就这样，没有其他的反应，没哭、没笑、没喊，没意见, 什么都没有。。。这就是他。。。所以那一次他突然间大喊我才会吓了一跳，感到很错愕而说不出话来！

其实他也没那么坏啦！只是一时很心烦、情绪失控。。。过后他不止一次向我道歉。。。他也说当然了解我的苦心，也很清楚都是出于爱他。。。

就这样，说完了。。。那他到底是谁啊。。。？

我的答案是：。。。如果是你，你要我说出来吗？

Curious cats, I’m so sorry to keep you waiting… but then in this way you will keep visiting my website…

First, let me answer as to whether the “two incidents” are actually true and is there really such a person?

Concerning “He Did Not Come That Night”, yes, the incident is true and there is such a person… His and my sms are both real… and it happened only recently… if you really want to know his real identity, I suggest you go search the records of Digi, Maxis, Celcom etc, you will surely find it… But if you want me just to expose him here, I’m afraid I might need to write another ” He Did Not Come Again That Night”!

But I think the “he” all of you are curious about isn’t this “he” but the “he” in “Why Must You Be So Difficult”… May be many want to take lessons from him as to how to have such courage to go against the pastor? Haha!

Alright! I’ll let you know whether there is really such an incident and person! My! Honestly, if you all read properly, can those  be only one incident, or just one person?

There you go! See? I knew it would be this kind of “nonsense” answer!… Hey, wait, be patient, I haven’t finished talking… Let’s get on with some mature discussion first and not be like those only chasing after meaningless celebrity gossips…

If I really want to whet your appetite, I would say: this essay is a collection of a few incidents, and a combination of a few people… but of course this is very possible too because the conflict in the essay covers many aspects, how can one single conflict be full of so many different aspects?
Ok, even if it is a combination of various incidents, then is it the same person for all these…

Aha! As for this answer… actually you all do know who this person is!

“He” is actually YOU! Don’t tell me you have never been rude to or misunderstood to your brother, or friend, or elder, or parents etc…? The essay is a reflection of yourslef!
There, there, there! Here we go again! It’s this kind of “nonsense” answer again!… Hahaha! Don’t leave! Be patient! I haven’t finished talking! Look at you now, aren’t you the same as “him” feeling like shouting at me too? That is why I said “he” is YOU or ME!

But to be very honest, there is such an incident… and there is such a person… but of course there is some modification when writing an article…
Many people’s curiosity is aroused as a result of this article, but I knew he himself had not or would not read it, so I sent him a text message to go read that essay, and told him it was written for him… Go and read it, I said… he answered, ok!

I asked him the next day whether he had read it, he said yes… that’s all, no other response, no tears, no smile, no shouting, no opinion, no nothing… that’s him… That’s why when he shouted at me suddenly that time really stunned me till I didn’t know what to say!

Actually he is not all that bad! Only feeling really frustrated at that time, losing control of his emotions… after that he really apologised to me more than once… he lso said of course he knew my effort and knew very well that it’s all out of love for him…

So that’s it, I’ve finished… so actually who is “he”…?

My answer is: … if it were you, would you want me to reveal it?