你为什么一定要这样？！ Why Must You Be So Difficult?！

他    很生气的喊着说：

你为什么一定要这样？！别人都没有像你那样！

我做错了，别人都静静，你为什么就一定要责备教训？！

我的态度怎么样，我要随心所欲，别人也不管，你为什么就是要多说两句？！

我的事奉、我的作风、我的一举一动，别人都不注意，你为什么要观察的那么严谨？！

我的选择、我的前途、我要跟谁交往，别人都不过问，你为什么就一定要干涉？！

我要发脾气、我要喊、我要闹情绪，别人也没感觉，你为什么一定要伤心？！

你为什么一定要这样？！别人都没有像你那样！你令我很反感，我不喜欢这样被人管！

我    一时不知要怎么回答，这突如其来的反应让我有点错愕，回不过神来。。。

是的，我为什么一定要这样？别人都没有像我那样。。。

我只能说：

因为我是你的弟兄，我希望你进步，我不想让你错下去。。。

因为我是你的朋友，我希望看到别人都会很喜欢你。。。

因为我是你的牧师，我希望看到上帝很喜悦你。。。

因为我是你的父亲，我希望你有一片光明与幸福的未来。。。

因为我很关心你、很在乎你，所以我会有所感觉。。。

因为别人可能会离开你，可是我会一直留在你身边。。。

总归来说，因为我很爱你，所以我会这样跟别人不一样。。。

是的，我为什么一定要这样？

He shouted angrily at me : Why must you be so difficult?! Others are not even like you!

When I do wrong, they keep quiet, why must you correct and rebuke?!

Whatever my attitude, I want to do things my own way, others don’t really care, why must you always comment?!

The way I serve, my style, my every move, others don’t even notice, why must you observe so closely?!

My choice, my future, my partner, others don’t even question, why must you interfere?!

I want to get angry, I want to shout, I want to be emotional, others don’t even feel a thing, why must you feel sad?!

Why must you be so difficult?! Others are not even like you! You really put me off, I don’t like to be controlled!

I was flabbergasted at this sudden outburst, stunned, not knowing how to answer…

Yes, why must I be so difficult? Others are not even like me…

All I can say is :

Because I’m your brother, I hope you will improve, I don’t want you to continue to err…

Because I’m your friend, I hope others will like you too…

Because I’m your pastor, I hope you will find favour with God…

Because I’m your father, I want you to have a bright and happy future…

Because I care for you, and you mean a lot to me, that is why I will feel something…

Because others may leave you, but I’ll always be there for you…

In summary, it’s all because I love you dearly, that is why I’m so different from others…

Yes, why must I be so difficult?