你属于或喜欢哪一类型? Which type do you belong to or like?

如果我发给你一则这样的简讯:“谢谢你们这些日子以来的搭配和协助,我决定开一张支票给你们以表谢意!”

你会偏向以下哪一个反应?或你又会比较喜欢以下哪一个反应?

(A) 没反应,没回复。

(B) 感谢主。

(C) 有这个必要吗?但还是谢谢你啦!

(D) 哎呀,不必啦,都没帮到什么忙!我们也没要求报酬!若有需要我自己会厚着脸皮开口的,哈哈!但还是非常谢谢你啦!

If I sent you a message like this : “Thanks for all your help and working together all this while, I’ve decided to issue a cheque to you to express my gratitude!”

Which of the following replies will you be more inclined to? Or which reply do you like better?

(A) No response, no reply.

(B) Thank God.

(C) Is it necessary? Hmm… anyway, thank you.

(D) Aiya, no need le. We didn’t help much and didn’t ask for it. When I have a need I’ll ask without feeling embarrassed one. Haha! Anyway, thanks a lot. (Pardon the Chinglish)

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  • wong e -zin

    (C) 有这个必要吗?但还是谢谢你啦!

    …因那是我该做的本分…..。

  • GN

    To me, (A) is definitely out as if the message was sent to me by someone whom I know, no matter how I shall still reply as I find it rude if I failed to.

    (C) is out for me too as when I helped people, usually I won’t ask for any return even if that person wanted to. To me, sincerity is very important if we want to maintain a good friendship and I felt this attitude does help to touch the life of pre-believer friends and bring them to Christ.

    I think I shall be more inclined to (B) and (D) as whatever it is, I must always thank GOD for everything, for being given a chance to be presented a cheque for my effort, even though I might not accept the “gratitude” offered.

  • http://smsoh12@hotmail.com Sharon Soh

    (D) 哎呀,不必啦,都没帮到什么忙!我们也没要求报酬!若有需要我自己会厚着脸皮开口的,哈哈!但还是非常谢谢你啦!

  • candy hee

    感谢主。

  • 秋凤

    B的答案。真心爱主,事奉主的人那会在乎‘回报’?

  • HL

    My reply :-

    Really ! but it cannot be you, Pastor
    I think you need a retreat and take some rest !

    Hahhaaaaaa…..

    • http://gtlim.com gtlim

      Oh ya? Watch out you…

      • HL

        Oops ! Okie….
        Welcome to Singapore

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000349727253 Alison Yu

    (B) Thank God….God will provide.

  • http://chiewling.com CL

    As for me, I would say.
    (B) Thank God. Thank you Pastor. Looking forward to working with you again.
    ( Accept the cheque with a big smile)

    • “Hello Kitty”

      Yea and Amen! Thumbs Up, sis CL!

    • Guek

      Cool..Qiu Ling.Hahaha..For Me,I Will Choose C.Is it necessary? Hmm… anyway, thank you..And I will take the cheque all put in church donation.^^

    • http://gtlim.com gtlim

      CL, see devlin’s answer below : (B) – sounds in dire need of money.
      Muahahahaha!

      • http://chiewling.com CL

        Ai cham, Shhh!!!!
        Ps, don’t say liaw, later everyone knows my secret….
        hahahaha….

  • devlin

    I would say none. (A) – seems rude. (B) – sounds in dire need of money. (C) – doesn’t seem appreciative. (D) – Paster always remind us, “In Jesus name, cast away all the ‘keh-kee’ spirit.”

    • http://gtlim.com gtlim

      Haha, good analysis…

    • Titus kho

      ha ha ha… to me is no ‘keh-kee’ spirit. when you need money, just say Thank You, “Mai Pai Say”

  • Fong

    我会看人回答:

    对方不是很熟的人,按兵不动。(A) 没反应,没回复。

    对方是个半生不熟的人。(B) 感谢主。

    对方是个很熟的長辈。(C) 有这个必要吗?但还是谢谢你啦!

    对方是个可以开玩笑的像牧師您啊!那就别客气啰!赶快(D) 哎呀,不必啦,都没帮到什么忙!我们也没要求报酬!若有需要我自己会厚着脸皮开口的,哈哈!但还是非常谢谢你啦!

    • http://gtlim.com gtlim

      哇,好会分析,你可以写专栏。。。

      • Fong

        专栏?谢谢誇奖!像您说的,信主后,思路较广倒是真的。感谢上帝!

  • http://www.lilomag.com DJ

    (e) I would prefer cash if the amount is less than RM1000. Thank you.

    • http://gtlim.com gtlim

      Very funny…

  • pink

    Though (C) is not my perfect answer, however it is nearest to my heart.

  • raymond

    D….因为帮的主是荣耀

  • victoria chin

    C….

  • http://henstudio.com Hen

    (B) + gam dong lau bak sai 感动流目屎~

    • http://chiewling.com CL

      Hahaha, i am so glad. Ah Hen chose (B) too.
      Hen, i didn’t know we r in the same boat.
      Got people say the one who choose (B) sounds like in dire (aduh dire lagi so jiak lat) need of money

  • daness

    (C) 有这个必要吗?但还是谢谢你啦!
    我会直接的收下,因为我相信每一件事的发生都有他的原因。。。。。我相信主的每一个决定。。

  • chung yi

    單然是Blo

  • http://charlene1993@hotmail.com Teresa Ng

    None from the Above…will reply is enough you got that heart.Thank you.

  • source of joy

    (A) No response, no reply – IF i SO don like the person.

    (B) Thank God – IF i m desperate.

    (C) Is it necessary? Hmm… anyway, thank you – IF i don really need it but can help those needing .

    (D) Aiya, no need le. We didn’t help much and didn’t ask for it. When I have a need I’ll ask without feeling embarrassed one. Haha! Anyway, thanks a lot. (Pardon the Chinglish) – IF this is my “fren” , after i said that, i take it anyway… ^___^

    Cheers ^^

  • source of joy

    btw Mr Lim – this pic – this is the first i time i think u r so “handsome” ^_^ don be mad ah – later not handsome

    • http://gtlim.com gtlim

      Thank you, you are also the 1st person who thinks I am so handsome.

      • source of joy

        haha ^___^ – oh ho really Mr Lim ? is that so, im the first one ??? nah…! – WHO can’t tell your just being modest… ^_^ lol (oooops… wrong choice of words ^)^ )

      • Fong

        好啦!好啦!I am the second person who thinks you are so handsome lah!hahaha…(Who is the third person。。。??)

      • victoria chin ping ping

        I want 2 be d 3 people.. Ps u are handsome..

  • Ngu Soon Hui

    (B) 感谢主。支票你签,数目我填。再一次谢谢你,感谢主。

  • Titus kho

    感谢主。

  • Jarvis

    我先是(A)没反应,没回复。楞了一會兒…然後,說一句:(B) 感谢主。過後,再問他/她:(C) 有这个必要吗?但还是谢谢你啦!不久后又覺得不好意思然後會說:(D) 哎呀,不必啦,都没帮到什么忙!我们也没要求报酬!若有需要我自己会厚着脸皮开口的,哈哈!但还是非常谢谢你啦!

    • http://gtlim.com gtlim

      哈哈哈哈!Jarvis!(好久不见)。。。果然厉害,原来四个是同一个人哦。。。太创意了,哈哈!

      • Jarvis

        這就是人的無奈…很常我們都是多面人!

  • 安琪儿

    钱算啥?(跟永恒比较)~~ 反观,没钱又万万不行,哎哟!头疼!

    金钱的魅力,无庸置疑。因此我们非常容易混晓“金钱与救恩”的界限及意义。我们总喜欢追求 “超越自我心灵”所须的基本需求,如;(懂的知足,不跟人比较,不在人前带面具等。。)

    由于看不见越界的危机(如果没有主的灯),不知不觉就掉入了无底坑(追求)而难以自拔,如;拼命追求财富,成功,成就感,名气,极度奢华等等。。到头来却发现,这是个深不见底的坑;(心灵永远无法真正平安满足)。因为凡不属永恒的事物,就永远无法取代永恒属灵的价值,以满足我们的心灵生命。

    金钱魅力太大,不过在世间。
    救恩魅力更大,祂确是永恒。

    要多多审擦自己。(歌林多前书11:28 & 11:31)

  • http://deleted 绣芩

    **佩璇和欣怡的留言。。。

    牧师,我们选择B的答案,感谢主。因为耶稣给了我们一个那么好的朋友陪在我们的身边,所以我觉得好朋友有什么困难,我们都应该互相帮忙一起解决事情,我们想这是朋友之间应该做的事情,就像松鼠和鸟互相帮忙一样。牧师,你一定很奇怪为什么我们会突然之间又说松鼠又说鸟吧!哈!哈!这是四年级的道德书里边写着的一篇故事,故事中很鼓励人:有一天,小鸟有难了,有一位猎人正举起枪想打小鸟时,松鼠看见了,赶紧从小鸟的身边跑过,小鸟知道自己的危险,就赶快的飞走,虽然小鸟飞走了没被打中,可是,猎人所射的子弹却打中了大树,大树快倒了,小鸟的孩子们 都在树上还不懂得飞,松鼠看见了,便马上的爬上大树去把小鸟的孩子们救了下来。松鼠也赶快的把它们藏在自己的屋里,猎人没发现它们便走了。小鸟非常的感谢松鼠,我看了这篇故事后心里很是感动,我觉得松鼠和小鸟是不同类的动物都能如此的互相帮忙,更何况我们人呢!不是更应该的互相帮忙吗?能在一起,能互相的认识对方,就应该要感谢主了,这是主的安排让我们能互相的认识对方,就像我们能认识到您一样,牧师,你知道吗?我们都常在想,我们为什么能互相认识呢?牧师,这真的是我们怎么样都想不明白的事也!你是那么的棒,我们只是小小的学生,我们为什么会认识呢?而且还见过面握过手,还能听到你唱歌,还能常常的在部落格里写留言和你说话。。。牧师,我们真的认识也!你不要笑我们这个问题都答不出哦!我们问老师,老师也答不出也!老师只是说要感谢主,要感恩,没有耶稣,我们会连部落格都开不了啊!是的,没有耶稣,我们根本是不可能能认识的!
    牧师,我们又学会了三首新歌,有一首歌是我们在上个星期就要老师教我们唱的,老师说不能这么快教,因为老师要先学唱啊!我们都以为老师不教了,可是今天我们真的唱了,这首歌就是:轻轻听!我们还唱了:真正好,哈!哈!牧师,我们唱来唱去,把这首歌唱成华语歌了也,因为今天是我们第一次听到福建话,也是第一次唱哦!原来福建话是那么的好听啊!我们也唱了:感谢感谢耶稣,把感谢换成了荣耀,赞美,又换成了Halelluyah赞美主,我们都唱的很开心。牧师,你知道吗?我们在唱着耶稣的歌时,我们的脑子都会想到你也!我们几个学生唱到一半都会说:老师,如果牧师有在多好啊!可是真奇怪,老师都是静静的一句话都不要说波!牧师,老师的这个反应是告诉我们:这是不可能的事,还是老师没有话说呢?牧师,我们都希望有一天,我们能和你一起的手牵手唱耶稣的歌,这多好啊!

    ** 思薏和晓薇的留言。。。

    牧师,我们选择D的答案,因为帮助人并不是要要求回报的,助人为快乐之本嘛!帮助了人心情会特别的开心的啊!况且我们也需要别人的帮助,要别人帮助我们,首先我们必须要先帮助人。我们喜欢D这样的回答,回答得爽快,听得也舒服!

  • 小羊

    我的看法啦:如果那个人很有心要祝福您,您若太客气而不接纳,也许他会觉得受伤,或者。。。。。一个好施舍的人,会觉得施比受更为有福呢!所以,他既已定意要祝福您,就~~感谢主!收下吧!这是上帝感动他赐给您的啦!而且上帝也自会倾福于他的。

  • Jane Doe

    (E) Really??!!! Oh thank you so much! (Jumping with joy after sending the reply, thanking God and pray that He’ll bless you more…)