当曲终人散的时候。。。 After the last song is sung and you’re all alone…
刚才还很热闹，一大堆人在我家庆祝，有说有笑。。。
现在大家都回去了，突然间又安静下来，恢复一个人的生活。。。
一个人独处的时候，感觉是怎样的？
It was still very noisy just now, a group of friends gathered at my place to celebrate, talking and laughing…
Now all have left and it is suddenly very quiet again, back to the lifestyle of being alone…
How does it feel to be all alone by yourself?
我不是宅男，所以说真的，我会享受有好朋友陪我聊天、分享等等；但像我这样常常忙碌的人，也会很享受一个人安静独处的时候。。。
身边常常有人，有时候也需要一点私人空间，休息与做一些个人喜欢的事情。。。
但最重要的还是要争取与神单独相会的时间。。。
I’m not a recluse, so honestly I do enjoy having close friends to chat with me and to share etc; but for an always very busy person like me, I do enjoy very much too the time when I can be alone…
I always have people around me, so sometimes I do need some private time, to rest and do my own things…
But most importantly we must strive for time to spend with God alone…
曲终人散，若没有上帝，谁都会感觉寂寞，所以有一些人觉得生活太无聊就到夜店狂欢、借酒消愁、吸烟解闷、沉迷电视等等。。。
但若与上帝有真实的关系，那你绝对不会只是孤单自己一个人的。。。
所以跟上帝绝对要培养很亲密的关系。。。我不是说我已完全做到，但那是我的目标。。。
When the crowd is gone, without God, anyone will feel lonely, that is why some people feel so bored and go clubbing or drinking to kill boredom, or smoke to escape reality, or get hooked to TV etc…
But if you have a real relationship with God, then you will never be all alone by yourself…
So must cultivate an intimate relationship with God… I’m not saying that I’ve completely achieved that, but that is my goal…
