蒙福第一美女出炉！！ Announcing the No.1 beauty in Blessed Church!!
很多人都很期待、很好奇，到底谁会中选蒙福第一美女。。。
有一些很担心会否造成纷争、误会、妒忌、不满。。。这大概就是他们所谓的“玩火”吧？。。。真的有火吗？哈哈哈!
其实我本来只是开个玩笑，但后来看到大家反应那么踊跃，也让我网站三天内两次破了空前记录，才发现原来大家那么有兴趣这个话题啊？
既然如此，我就打铁趁热，从中看看人生百态，不同人对同样事情的看法、意见、反应。。。果然多姿多彩、无奇不有，哈哈哈！！
结果成绩呢。。。？
Many are waiting, expectant and curious about who the No. 1 beauty in Blessed Church would be…
Some are very concerned that this might create conflicts, misunderstandings, jealousy, displeasure… perhaps this is what they called “playing with fire”?… Is there really a fire? Hahaha!
Actually it was initially just a joke, but when I saw the overwhelming response that caused my website to break my own views record twice in three days, I realised many are indeed very interested in a topic like this!
Since that is the case, I took the opportunity to observe different facades of different people, how different people look at, think about, react to one same thing… Sure enough it is very colourful and interesting, hahaha!
Well, and the result is…?
其实这“竞选”当中我最在意的是大家投某人一票的原因过于这人长得怎么样。。。我要看大家把“美”的重点放在哪里。。。
有好一些只单选外貌，要他们再多说一点也说不出所以然来！
有一些说他们有人选，但看到规则要求说要讲原因，他们就退缩不投了！通常是年轻人较有这种反应，他们说：
1）不知要写什么？。。。( 为什么会不知要写什么？没思想吗？没观察力吗？)
2）有一些说不会写，写不出来。。。( 为什么？语言能力差到连称赞、欣赏人的几句好话都不会表达吗？)
3）其实有好多我相信是根本懒惰想，或懒惰写。。。( 若主题不适合你，你没兴趣，或你认为很浪费你的时间，那还可以接受因人各有所好。。。但千万不要做那种什么事情都懒得理，成天袖手旁观，什么都等别人去做，自己就只享受成果或看热闹的那种人！)
好吧，讲了那么多，那到底是谁中选蒙福第一美女呢？
拜托啦，教会几乎两千人，投票者少过一百人，所以选出来的怎能代表全蒙福的意思呢？你们说是不是？
所以在这里我们没办法说谁是第一美女啦！
你们好一些似乎误会了我刊登我母亲相片是指她是全蒙福第一美女！！喂！我可没这么说哦，我只是问你们知道这美女是谁吗。。。是的，她可能是我心目中最美丽，但我绝对不会说那是全教会的看法。。。哈哈！
但对所有投票者我要说，你们心目中的美女就是第一美女，别管人怎么说，自己高兴就好，！哈哈哈哈！
话虽如此，若真的要从投票中来选，我不会单看票数，我会看重你们留言里写的原因胜过一切，所以我鼓励大家不要懒惰，看到长长的留言就不去读！当中有很多很好的论点是我们都可以思想和学习的。。。
但也请不要灰心以为你空等一场，下一篇我会把美女竞选成绩真正的刊登出来哦。。。相信吗？信必得着。。。哈哈！
Actually for this “contest”, I look more towards the reason why you voted for someone rather than how they look… I want to see where you place “beauty”…
Some only voted on the looks and they could not say anything more about their favoutites!
Some said they did have a favourite but they withdrew from voting just because the rule required them to state the reasons for their choice! Normally such reaction came from young people, they said:
1) Don’t know what to write… ( Why wouldn’t you know what to write? No thought on things? No observation? )
2) Some said they don’t know how to write… ( Why? Is your linguistic skill so poor that you can’t even say or express a few words of praise or compliment for people? )
3) In fact I think many are just too lazy to think or write… ( If the topic does not suit or interest you and you think it’s such a waste of time, that I can accept ‘cos everyone has different interests… but hopefully you aren’t the type of people who just can’t be bothered about anything, too lazy to participate in anything and always let others do everything and you just sit back and enjoy the fruit of others’ labour! )
Alright, after saying so much, so who is actually voted the prettiest lady of Blessed Church?
Oh please, we have almost two thousand people in the church and less than a hundred people voted, so how could the person receiving the “most” votes here be considered to represent the entire Blessed’s choice? Don’t you agree?
So there is no way we can say who is the No.1 beauty of Blessed Church here!
And many of you seem to have misunderstood my posting of my mum’s photos as saying she is the No.1 beauty of Blessed Church!! Hey, I never said that, I just asked you all whether you knew who this beauty was… Yes, she might be the fairest of them all to me, but I certainly won’t claim that as the entire church’s opinion… Haha!
But to all those who voted I want to say, whoever you think is the most beautiful, then she is the prettiest regardless of what others might say, as long as you are happy with your own choice, hahaha!
Having said that, if I really had to choose from the votes collected, I won’t just look at the number of votes, above all I will emphasize on the reaons mentioned in the comments… So I encourage all of you not to be lazy to read just because there are too many words in the comments! There are many good points that we can consider and learn from…
But don’t be discouraged thinking that it’s such a futile wait, in my next post will be the actual result of the poll… do you believe me? Believe and you shall receive… haha!