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随着岁月成长。。。蜕变。。。 Growing through the years… transformation…

人说小时候长得好看,大了就不好看;小时候不好看,大了就会变成好看。。。
你们赞成吗?这是什么道理啊?
但老实说,这种话,听听玩玩就好了,无需太认真也无需为之辩论得面红耳赤。。。

我只知道小狗都很可爱,大了有一些真的变得很丑;而小鸟刚开始非常丑,越大就越美丽。。。
那我呢。。。?哈哈!

我小时候常为自己的长相感觉自卑,越大或越“老”自信也逐渐增加,但那并不表示我认为自己变得越来越好看,而是经历及认识了神,内心世界、价值观等等都会起了变化。。。
但我也相信,一个有自信的人,怎样都会比较有吸引力,只要不要过度而变成自高自傲。。。

Some say if you were good looking when small, then you will not be good looking when grown; and if you were not good looking when small, you will grow up to be good looking…
Do you agree? What kind of logic is that?
But honestly, this kind of statement is just to listen for fun, there is no need to be too serious about it, less so to argue over it…

All I know is puppies are very cute but some grow up to be real ugly; and nestlings start off very ugly but become more and more beautiful as they grow…
Then what about me…? Haha!

I often felt inferior about my look when young, but as I grow “older” my confidence increases too. That does not mean I think I have become better looking but rather after encountering and knowing God, your inner self and value system etc will start to change…
But I believe too a confident person is somewhat more attractive too, as long as it is not too much and perceived to be arrogant or proud…

看看我成长中的照片,我最“美丽”的时刻是几时呢?哈哈。。。
我将会刊登一篇有关此主题的文章。。。
Look at my growing up photos, which is my most “beautiful” moment? Haha…
I will post an article on this topic…

婴孩。。。  baby…

两、三岁时吧。。。  Round about 2 or 3 years old…

四、五岁?  4 or 5?

七、八岁?  7 or 8?

十一、十二。。。  11 or 12…

十五岁。。。 15 years old…

十九岁。。。19 years old…

今天,几岁。。。?  Today, how old…?

至于那帅哥。。。 As for that handsome guy…

我真的有些讶异好多人看不出他是谁,尤其是我们教会的弟兄姐妹。。。你们的分辨能力未免太差了,哈哈!

这是我大哥,义仁啊!看他有多帅,想当年有多少女孩子喜欢他;那时我还是小学生,常常渴望长大后能像他一样帅。。。结果呢。。。?

我也很讶异竟然有好几个以为他是例外人团长祖的爸爸!那看来我跟祖的确有点相似了(这是祖的快乐还是悲哀呢?)。。。
难怪有初次见到我和祖的香港人、台湾人等,以为我跟祖是父子。。。

I was really surprised so many of you could not tell who this is, especially our church’s brothers and sisters… your discernment is really weak, haha!

This is my eldest brother, Gee Jin! See how handsome he was, I remember so many girls fell for him then; I was only a primary school kid then, how I always wished I would grow up to be as handsome as he was… and the result…?

I was also very surprised quite a few thought that is Jaydon Joo’s father! That means Joo and I do have some resemblance (now is that good or bad news to Jaydon?)…
No wonder some Hong Kongers, Taiwanese, etc who saw Jaydon and I together for the first time thought we were father and son…

我有两个哥哥,中间那个是大哥。。。大哥一直以来都很保护我和以我为荣,到今天也是如此。。。
左边那个是我二哥,他生命也有很美好的见证。。。
最上面那个当然是我啦!1988年从纽西兰回来度假,看我多阳光、多健壮。。。

I have two older brothers, the one in the middle is my eldest brother… my big brother has always been very protective and proud of me, even today…
The one on the left is my second brother, he has a great testimony too…
And the guy on top is of course me! Came back from New Zealand for a holiday in 1988, look at how tanned and fit I was…

至于那神秘女郎。。。 As for that mysterious lady…

我知道我答应若有人猜对地点就跟你们讲故事。。。我当然会遵守诺言。。。
那你预备好听故事了吗?这神秘女郎到底是谁?

I know I have promised you guys that I will tell you a story when someone guesses the place right… of course I will keep my word…
So, are you ready for the story? Who actually is this mysterious lady?

你们期待听到什么故事?但你们有没有注意到我只答应讲故事给你们听,却没有说是什么样的故事?哈哈哈!
看以下我在前两篇有关这的文章所写的:

What kind of story do you expect? But did you notice that I only promised to tell you a story and did not say what kind of story it is going to be? Hahaha!
Note what I wrote in my two previous articles on this:

“这是什么地方?
猜对了就讲故事给你们听。。。哈哈!
where is this place?
If you guessed right, then I will tell you a story… haha!”

“你们真的是猜中了,那我该怎么办?
那就该履行所承诺的讲故事给你们听了。。。
you have guessed the answer correctly, then what should I do?
Then I would have to keep my promise of telling you a story…”

所以现在我要讲什么故事都可以了,哈哈哈。。。

但为了满足你们的好奇心,我就好心透露一下那照片里的神秘女郎是谁吧。。。
很多的猜测,甚至有一些认为是我姐姐。。。乍看之下,的确某些神韵蛮像我姐,今天这两张就是我姐在至少三十年前拍的照片,的确是一位清纯美少女。。。

但真正的那神秘女郎又是谁呢?

原来她是我的好朋友,当年我们一群好朋友到适耕庄玩,当中一位是摄影师,就选中我们两个充当他的模特儿咯。。。
事件就这么单纯,你们却想出那么多故事来!难怪今天艺人也有那么多八卦新闻,因为人的想象力越来越丰富。。。呃。。。与其说丰富,倒不如说越来越狭窄,因所想象的总离不开儿女私情。。。
好笑的是,甚至有些还很同情我的安慰我,以为我还走不出他们所想象已逝的“情伤”,哈哈哈哈。。。但还是谢谢你们的关心啦。事实是,在我记忆中,好像生命中没经历过什么“情伤”呢。。。

然而,为避免引起更多的瞎猜和误会,我就决定把那两篇文章拿下来了。。。
但,我的确有很多故事可以跟你们分享,包括“有一个我很爱的人”。。。那又将会是什么故事呢?请拭目以待吧,哇哈哈哈哈哈哈哈!

So now I can tell you whatever story I want, hahaha…

But in order to satisfy your curiosity, I will be very kind to reveal who that mysterious lady in the photo is…
There were many guesses, even including whether she is my elder sister… upon a quick look, yes, certain angles do look like my sister, these two photos of my sister’s today were taken at least thirty years ago, she was indeed a sweet natural beauty then…

But then , who is the real mysterious lady?

Alright, she is a good friend of mine, at that time, a group of my good friends went to visit Sekinchan, and one of them was a photographer, and he chose the two of us to be his models…
As simple as that, but you all could conjure up so many stories! No wonder there are so many gossips in the news regarding many celebrities nowadays, because people have become very “rich” in their imagination… err… should I say “narrow” as their imagination always centers around boy-girl relationship…
Funny thing is some even feel sorry for me and try to comfort me thinking I have not come out of the “emotional hurt” I went through in the imagined broken relationship, hahahaha… but thanks for your concern anyway. The truth is, I can’t really think of any such “hurt” in my life…

However, to avoid more wild guesses and misunderstandings, I have decided to take down the two articles…
But I truly do have many stories to share with you all, including on “There is someone whom I love very much”… what will that story be about again? Just wait and see, muahahahahahahaha!

二姐年轻时的照片,如今她已是三个孙子的婆婆了。。。
Young picture of my second sister, she is now a grandmother of three…