伤心、不如意时，我们有时候会想宁愿没有生在这世上，能死掉最好。。。
可是事实不能改变，我们已经生下来了，再怎么问为什么，再怎么抱怨也无济于事。。。当然更不能用死来解决，因为自杀绝对会带来更大的痛苦！
固然，这世界有伤痛及无法理喻或接受的事情，几乎每个都人可能经历过伤心事或很残酷的事实，甚至有些正在面对着。。。
所以，心里难免充满疑惑、困倦感，但这一切都无法改变过去和已发生过的事实。
When we are sad or troubled, sometimes we may think we would rather not to be born in this world, or it is better to just die…
But we cannot change the fact that we were already born here, so no matter how many why’s you ask or how you grumble is not going to change a thing… and of course we definitely cannot use death to solve the problem as committing suicide will definitely lead to a greater suffering!
Certainly this world has things that are painful and hard to accept, almost everyone has experienced some sort of hurting things or some very cruel realities, or may be some are currently facing such…
That is why our hearts unavoidably may be filled with doubts and weariness, but all these cannot change the past or what have been.
我们无法改变过去，却能够决定我们要拥有怎样的今天和未来。。。与其抱怨或离开神，倒不如清醒思想，也只有神真正能够帮助、改变及拯救我们。很多时候痛苦是存留在记忆中，是我们的思想把我们捆锁在痛苦里；所以我们需要在思想上努力的不断更新、改变与突破。
当我们不断吸收积极和正面的想法，负面和消沉的自然会减少。这会直接影响我们的心情和情绪。
We cannot change our past, but we can decide what kind of present and future we are going to have… Rather than complaining or leaving God, might as well think clearly to know that only God can truly help, change and rescue us. Many times the pain is in our memory, it is our thought that locks us in the suffering. So we need to diligently seek the renewal, transformation and breakthrough in our mind continually.
When we continually absorb positive and optimistic thoughts, negative and pessimistic ones will reduce naturally. This will directly affect our emotions and feelings.
其中一个我们可默想的正面思想，就是我那天鼓励表妹秀月的生日贺词，今天有感动也把它贴在这里与大家共勉之：
“你生在这个世上有很大的使命，你生在这个家庭有神的美意；不管我们如何来到这世上，不管我们喜欢不喜欢那原因、环境和遭遇，要牢记你是特别从天上被差派下来，为成就一项伟大任务；而那任务也只有你能完成，别人不能取代。。。”
灰心沮丧时，不妨思想耶稣的话吧，他也有心情难过的时候：
“我现在心里忧愁、我说甚么才好呢？父阿，救我脱离这时候；但我原是为这时候来的。父阿、愿你荣耀你的名。。。”
～ 约12：27－28 ～
所以，让我们不断朝着这方面思想，继续努力奔跑吧，要知道你是天上来的特务使者！
One of the positive thought we can meditate on is the birthday blessing I sent my cousin Dorcas the other day. I feel I should post it here today to share with you all too:
“You have a great mission to be born in this world. There is a beautiful plan of God for you to be born in this family. No matter how we came into this world, whether or not we like that reason, environment or circumstance, always remember you are specially sent from heaven to accomplish a great task; and you alone can complete that task, no one else can replace…”
When you are discouraged or depressed, take time to think on the words of Jesus, He also had moments when his heart was down:
“Now my heart is troubled, and what shall I say? `Father, save me from this hour’? No, it was for this very reason I came to this hour. Father, glorify your name…”
~ John12:27-28 ~
Therefore, let us continually fix our mind on this, keep on running fervently, know that you are a special agent sent from heaven…